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Was Suffering a Part of God’s Plan?

There was a boy who not only endured years of sexual abuse at the hand of a family friend, but grew up with a physically-abusive, alcoholic father.

This same boy became a man and went on a mission to disprove the resurrection. 

His name is Josh McDowell and he wrote the very first Christian book I ever read called More Than a Carpenter. Today, he has ministered to many. His latest release, which is titled Undaunted: One Man’s Real-Life Journey from Unspeakable Memories to Unbelievable Grace, will no doubt minister to many more.

Just like when Joseph was sold into slavery, God took the evil inflicted on this kid and brought about something good.

But these bad things that happen? They weren’t a part of God’s plan.

God’s plan was Eden. Perfection. Harmony. A place where pain and suffering didn’t exist. A place free from shame and guilt and jealousy and depression and every other negative emotion that pockmarks the soul.

Obviously, something went awry. All we have to do is flip on the news or open a paper or, heck, live life for a day or two and we get that this world is far from harmonious. 

This wasn’t how it was supposed to be.

It wasn’t God’s will for spouses to cheat. 

It wasn’t God’s will for moms to get cancer.

It wasn’t God’s will for parents to lose children.

It wasn’t God’s will for anyone to get sick or abandoned or abused.

Orphanages were not a part of God’s plan.

Prisons were not a part of God’s plan.

Homeless shelters were not God’s plan.

Hospices were not God’s plan.

None of these things were part of the plan.

But they happen.

Because ever since sin entered the world, we exist in a state of decay. 

The good news?

Jesus came to set us free from sin’s penalty and one day, He’ll return and restore all that is broken. 

Until then……

God can use those broken, messy, shameful, ugly things in our lives.  

He can redeem what is hideous. He can shine light in the darkness. He can renew hope for the hopeless. He can breathe purpose into the seemingly senseless pain we sometimes endure. He can draw us closer to Him than we’ve ever been. He can bring wildflowers from winter.

We just have to let Him.

I don’t love reading these kinds of stories because I’m sadistic and enjoy hearing about people’s pain and hardship. 

I love reading them because they are a tiny glimpse, a glorious preview, of the redemption that is to come.

Let’s Talk: What’s your take on suffering and hardship? Why does it exist? 

If you’re interested in a fictional story that explores this idea of beauty from brokenness, check out the first three chapters of my debut novel, Wildflowers from Winter. I hope this book will renew the hope that is all too easily lost in the midst of hardship. Be blessed, readers!

*Photo by the talented Robert Michie*

Last Friday 3 C’s!

Best Buds
Side note: My husband gets B-man ready for bed, which means his pajamas almost never match.

Cares:
Labor Day is upon us. Which means summer is over and so is my summer blogging schedule.

Today will be the last of Friday 3 C’s. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading and enjoyed sharing. I’ve loved the little glimpses into your lives.

I’ll be taking Labor Day off to enjoy time with the family and will resume regular posting on Wednesday.

But I’m going to change things up a bit. My attempt to stay relevant without losing my mind.

Here’s the slightly altered blogging program:

Mondays – insights for the writing journey

Wednesday – reflections on faith, adoption, love, and life

Friday – Friday Favorites. Links to my favorite blog posts from the week.

Concerns:
I’ve had a headache for six days in a row. I’m not even kidding. But hey, if that’s my only concern, then I really have nothing to complain about!

Celebrations:
You can win a free, signed copy of Wildflowers from Winter on Maria Morgan’s blog. If you already have a copy, doesn’t mean you can’t win another to give away as a gift!

I would absolutely love to send you a welcome packet if you haven’t already signed up for one! The sign up button is up top.

I have a new page on my website called Facebook Fun, in which I share my Facebook game plan. If you’re a writer, I highly recommend having a game plan when it comes to that tricky Facebook Page.

My virtual bookshelf is all up to date!

Let’s Talk: What are your cares, concerns, and celebrations this week? Any fun Labor Day plans?

Praying Scripture

Lately, I’ve been hunting for those bits of scripture that translate directly into prayers.

Because sometimes I can’t find the right words.

For me. For others.

And there’s something really powerful about kneeling down and making God’s Word the cry of our hearts.

Here are a few of my favorites:

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
~Psalm 51:10

Search me, O God, and know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
~Psalm 139:23-24

May he grant your hearts desires and make all your plans succeed. May we shout for joy when we hear of your victory and raise a victory banner in the name of our God. May the Lord answer all your prayers.
~Psalm 20:4-5

Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you.
~Psalm 25:4-5

May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.
~Numbers 6:24-26 (I love praying this one over my readers)

As you can see, I’m a fan of praying the psalms.

Let’s Talk: Please share scripture that you love to pray! I’d love to add them to my journal for future use.