Congo

CongoWill you be posting about your trip to Congo?

Several people asked this question when I returned.

Only I didn’t know how to answer.

I thought I would write. I thought I would fill a whole journal with words upon words after returning. Writing is how I process, after all.

But every time I sat down and picked up a pen, I would stare awhile at the blank page.

Then I would set the pen down and close the empty journal and do something, anything else.

Because how does one put into words all that is Congo?

A place wholly broken and wholly beautiful.

Where corruption and redemption are so inextricably entwined, telling them apart is a complicated, messy business.

Where an abundance of the world’s coveted resources exists right alongside a poverty so abject it could rattle a person’s soul.

Where men with crippled legs sit outside a Fondu restaurant serving $40 meals, beating on drums for money.

Congo is a walking contradiction.

A lively one, too.

With its cacophony of sounds and its mishmash of color.

Beeping horns.

Crying babies.

Mmmbote Mundeli! and Bonjour!

Children’s giggles and that adorable way they say madam, like ma-DEM. Oh, I could melt.

The lush vegetation.

The bright oranges and yellows, purples and blues of fabric that women stitch into dresses and shirts.

The darkness of skin and the whiteness of smiles.

Children in uniforms walking to and from school and children without uniforms, sometimes without any pants at all, walking the streets, tapping on car windows, begging for money because they have nowhere to go and nothing to eat.

Rains that flash and flood all within the time it takes Shakira to sing Waka Waka.

A sun that rises and sets at six o’clock, on the dime, every single day.

Heat and dust and humidity and bugs.

Women and men carrying eggs and water and towers of whatever else atop their heads.

Orphanages overflowing with bald, big-bellied children, their lips quick to smile, but their eyes?

They tell a different story.

One of sadness and injustice and a whole world of heartache.

Little girls walking around with even smaller children strapped to their backs.

Because while childhood is almost a given here in America, in Congo it is a precious, rare commodity.

I visited a country saturated with resiliency, love, passion.

It’s a country that has not received a fair shake, not then and not now, but marches on because what else is there to do but keep going?

How does one write  about a trip such as this?

There aren’t words to do it justice.

Let’s Talk: Have you ever gone on a life-changing trip or had your eyes opened to something they can never be closed to again?

Friday Favorite: Girl Time!

Friday FavoritesSpending the weekend with fellow author and close friend, Betsy St. Amant?

Don’t mind if I do!

Let’s Talk: What’s a favorite from your week?

If you’re looking for a way to occupy your time from 1-2 pm, Central time today, I’ll be joining Writers’ Voices with Monica and Caroline on KRUU LPM, 100.1 FM, talking about writing, my journey, and my books. I might even be reading from them!

Safe Haven: A NYT Best Selling Experiment

safe havenIt’s long past due for another NYT Best Selling review!

The reason they’re taking so long is because the books have a long wait list at my local library.

Go figure.

Okay, so let me recap how this works.

I choose a book from the NYT best sellers list and commit to reading the first fifty pages, after which, I vlog two reviews–a review for readers, and a review for writers.

The reader review is your standard review.

The writer review, however, is different. This is where I attempt to figure out how the book landed on the coveted NYT best seller’s list.

Let’s get started, shall we?

A Review for Readers:

Video Cliffs Notes:

  • This was my first attempt to read a Nicholas Sparks novel.
  • When Katie, a mysterious newcomer shows up in Southport, North Carolina, she catches the attention of a widower named Alex, who’s raising two young ones on his own. A romance ensues and secrets about Katie’s not-so-happy past are revealed.
  • I wasn’t enthralled, but the book did help me pass the time during some long flights home from Africa.
  • At page 150-something, I convinced my husband to watch the movie.
  • I wasn’t a fan of the movie, so I lost momentum with the book too.

A Review for Writers:

Video Cliffs Notes:

  • Craft books tell us to start our stories with a sense that all is not well. Sparks does this well.
  • Curiosity is an author’s best friend. Curious readers keep turning pages. –> Click to Tweet
  • Sparks gives us a sympathetic male lead.
  • Just when the story might start to lag, Sparks throws in an action scene that grabs our attention.
  • Know thy audience. Romance readers tend to like those small, southern town settings.

Verdict?

thumbs sideways

Okay, so I didn’t technically finish this book. But to be fair, it wasn’t Nicholas Sparks fault that I didn’t like the movie. I bet if I would have waited to watch it, I would have stuck this book out.

Next book in the NYT best-selling experiment?

The Silver Linings Playbook by Matthew Quick

Which also happens to be a movie.

Let’s Talk: Do movies influence whether or not you read a book?