Author Philosophy 101

When I got into the education program at college, the first class I had to take was Philosophy of Education. I think that was first in the program because philosophy is important. It’s the wellspring of everything we do. And there are all kinds of different ones.

As a teacher, my philosophy dictated the way I treated my students, my interaction with parents, how I managed the class, the way I went about planning lessons, what I did with the curriculum. All those practices could be traced to my underlying philosophy of education.

So the other day, when I came across my Philosophy of Education paper, it got me thinking…..

If I were to take a course titled Philosophy of Being an Author, what would my paper say?

Whether we know it or not, we all have a philosophy. And this philosophy influences the way we go about being authors. It influences the kinds of stories we write, how we interact on social media, what we’re willing to sacrifice to reach our goals, and the list goes on.

So why not actively consider our philosophy? Why not pin it down so we can better understand why we’re doing what we’re doing?

It seems like a good idea.

Which is why I came up with a list of questions. Questions I’ve been considering as I think about my own philosophy. Questions I hope will get you thinking about yours.

Questions to Consider:
– What is a successful author?
– How much control does an author have over his/her success?
– What is the point of story?
– What’s the role of an author?
– What’s the ideal reader/author relationship?
– Is writing a career, a hobby, or a ministry?

You know what’s crazy? If we gathered a hundred different authors together and asked them these questions, their answers would all look different.

Some authors base success off of book sales, while some look at reviews. Some authors believe success is outside of their control and some think the ball’s completely in their court. We have authors who think the point of story is to entertain, but we have others who think the point of story is to change lives.

I think the reason this industry is riddled with so much conflicting advice is because there are so many different philosophies. And maybe, figuring out our own, will help us better choose which pills to swallow.

Let’s Talk: I’m dying to hear your philosophy. Pick any or all of the questions above and answer. Or, if you think there’s an important question I left off the list, please add. I’m not at all a moral relativist, but here’s a situation where there’s definitely no right or wrong answers.removetweetmeme

Love Triangles

I write romance, but I’ve never written a love triangle. The tension in my stories doesn’t arise from a girl choosing between two guys. It arises because the hero and heroine have conflicting goals.
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Yet love triangles are popular in the world of romance. And in the world of vampires, apparently. Because Bella has to choose between Jacob and Edward, just like Elena will ultimately have to choose between Stefan and Damon.
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Only in Twilight, we all knew who Bella would choose. Sure, there are people who wear Team Jacob shirts, but I don’t think many of them truly thought Bella would choose Jacob in the end. It was obvious. Jacob would not win.
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Yet in Vampire Diaries, I have no clue who Elena will end up with. And I’m genuinely torn, because I love her with Stefan, yet I’m rooting for Damon at the same time. 
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Love triangles tend to be obvious. The heroine might have feelings for two guys, and those feelings might add some tension to the story, but usually the reader knows who she’s going to pick. I don’t think any of us watched The Notebook and really thought Alli would go with Lon. Of course it had to be Noah, even though Lon was an attractive, likable man. 
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I tweeted about this recently. Love triangles. I asked if it was possible to write one where the reader truly has no clue who the heroine will choose. And my friend Heather Sunseri replied: Yes, but apparently it makes readers a little angry with the writer.
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So this leads to a conundrum.
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The majority of love triangles are obvious. But even if a writer manages to write one that isn’t, she risks angering 50% of her audience. Or maybe I’m missing the point. Maybe it’s okay for love triangles to be obvious. Maybe the point of them isn’t to keep the reader guessing.
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Which leads to my question….
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Let’s Talk: What’s the point of a love triangle? Do you like them? If so, what’s your favorite one?

After an insanely intense round of final line edits, followed by a trip to St. Louis, this girl needs a blogging break. I’ll see you in October!

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God’s Voice

Do you ever feel like God is speaking to you? Do you ever have these moments of clarity, where something presses so firmly against your heart that it can’t be ignored? You just know He’s inviting you to do something. To take part in something. The urge is undeniable.

But then fear or laziness or selfishness creeps in, and we start to think about all the reasons why we can’t do this thing. It’s too expensive. It’s too time-consuming. It’s too crazy. It’s too (fill in the blank).

And then we start convincing ourselves that it wasn’t really God who pressed that thing on our heart. It was just this strange urge. An impulsive, irrational moment. We were emotional that day. Or over-tired. Or (fill in the blank).

And so we go about our every-day, humdrum life. We don’t do anything bad. We go to church. We read our Bible. We pray. We cling to safety. To familiarity. And we wonder why we can’t hear God’s voice as well as we used to.

But what would happen if we listened? What would happen if we obeyed before we talked ourselves out of the things He calls us to do? How clearly would we hear His voice then?

Here’s my confession.

I settle for the easy because I’m too selfish to embrace the hard.

But you know what?

God’s going to carry out His will. God’s going to do His thing. And it will be glorious and awe-inspiring and 100% breathtaking. But because I’m too scared or logical or self-centered or lazy or (fill in the blank), I will miss out on being a part of it.

If you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place….

Esther 4:14

God was going to save the Jews, with or without Esther’s help. But He invited Esther to be a part of His plan. She said yes. And because of that, experienced God’s power and grace in a way she never would have had she said no.

God spoke to me recently. It was clear. So very clear. I don’t want to ignore His invitation.

Let’s Talk: Tell me about a time in your life when God spoke. How did you respond?removetweetmeme