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Romance and the Bible

Those words aren’t paired together too often. Yet whether you know it or not, the Bible is filled with romantic tales. And some of those tales are downright steamy.

We’ve got…

Adam and Eve
God created Eve for Adam. If that isn’t the definition of soul mates, I don’t know what is.

Rebecca and Isaac
A beautiful story of love at first sight.

Jacob, Leah, Rachel
One of history’s oldest recorded love triangles. With a twist. Instead of a woman choosing between two men, we have a man torn between two women.

Samson and Delilah
A story of deception and betrayal.

David and Bathsheba
The epitome of forbidden lust. With devastating consequences.

Ruth and Boaz
Ruth would get along well in our modern-day world. Because in this story, she’s the one who does the pursuing. And guess what? God blesses her boldness.

Esther and King Ahasuerus
Think Prince William and Kate’s story, only on steroids. A commoner marries royalty, but instead of happily ever after, she must use the king’s favor to rescue her people from death.

Hosea and Gomer
The Biblical version of Pretty Woman. A story of a man burdened with love for a fallen woman. The prophet and the prostitute.

Joseph and Mary
They fall in love. Get engaged. Mary gets pregnant. Only it’s not Joseph’s child. Then an angel appears and the story goes all paranormal.

Song of Songs
An entire book of the Bible written between two lovers. It drips with passion. In fact, anyone who thinks Christianity is a prude religion must have skipped this book.

How handsome you are, my beloved! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.
Song of Songs 1:16

Brief vocabulary lesson. Verdant means green. Green symbolizes life. You make the inference.

Jesus and His Bride
Battered. Bruised. Broken. Marred with scars. Covered in filth. Yet Jesus looks upon her with so much love, so much yearning, so much passion, He lays down His life to rescue her.

Let’s Talk: Do you think of the Bible as romantic? Why or why not? Did I leave out some stories that should be included in the list?removetweetmeme

The Joy Thief

He plays with light and dark, casting shadows of enormity, disguising himself as a towering monster. When really, behind the trick, lies something silly and small and inconsequential.

I call him the Joy Thief.

More popularly known as Worry or Inconvenience.

He likes to watch us, like some warped version of Santa Claus, waiting for that perfect moment. The moment we let our guards down so he can creep into our soul and feed. Feasting on our busyness. Our distraction. Our tiredness and irritability. Until he grows so big and bloated there’s no room for joy.

The Joy Thief is a monster we invite into our bellies. A monster that gives us wrinkles and ulcers and chest pains and quick tempers. A monster that doesn’t add a single day to our lives.

Our time on this earth is so fleeting. Like grass, we are here today and gone tomorrow. So why in the world do we let these silly, small, inconsequential things grow bigger than they are and steal our joy?

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?
Luke 12:25

Let’s Talk: Do you know the Joy Thief? How does he disguise himself in your life?removetweetmeme

Casting a Vision

There is something powerful about spoken words. But I think there’s something extra powerful about written ones. There is a permanence about them, a visibility that we can’t forget or dismiss or shoo away as a passing whim.

Written words have a physicality. There they are on a page we can feel or a computer screen we can touch. Captured not just for our own eyes, but for other’s as well.

So today, with that power in mind, I’m encouraging anyone with a goal, anyone with a dream, to write it down. To type it out. To make it physical and permanent.

This is something I did a year and a half ago. And I think it’s one of the most helpful things I’ve done for my writing career.

I wrote something called a vision statement.

Let me just tell you, I love, love, love vision statements. They are fearless. They are honest. They don’t contain doubt. Or what-ifs. Or settling for less. They are filled with possibility and hope and anticipation.

But before you can pick up a pen and write something so glorious, it would probably be helpful to know what one is.

Simply put, a vision statement is a picture of yourself in the future. It’s what you aspire to be, deep down in your heart. In that place you keep hidden, because maybe your dreams are big. And maybe the odds are against you.

Creating one involves casting a vision for yourself. It means fast-forwarding ten or twenty years into the future. Giving serious thought to what you hope to be. What you hope to accomplish. Then capturing that vision in the shape of a bio.

So instead of: Katie Ganshert is a debut novelist…..

Mine starts: Katie Ganshert is a multi-published, full-time author….

The first is true right now. The second is my vision. What I hope to someday accomplish.

I think it’s important to write it in present-tense, as if that vision were truth. And it’s important to have it down on paper or saved in the computer as your stake-in-the-ground. These are your dreams. Your wishes. Your hopes. This is what you’re striving toward.

So be honest. Be confident. And write it down. Make it permanent and physical.

I wrote mine in a journal on April 11, 2010. And all the doubt and rejection and fear and waiting I’ve passed through since that day has led me back to my vision statement. A vision statement that keeps me focused. On course. Striving onward.

Let’s Talk: What is something that would be or already is in your vision statement? Let’s get real. Let’s dream big. Where do you hope you’ll be in ten, twenty years?

I know that’s a pretty personal question. So it’s only fair if I open up first.

One of the lines in my vision statement says this:
Her novels are known for their tension-filled pages, evocative prose, and hope-filled endings.

This doesn’t mean I’m there yet. It doesn’t mean I’m currently writing stories that capture this vision. But it does give me something to reach for.removetweetmeme