Category: writing
A Social Media Plan
I don’t mind when you’re working on your writing. But when you’re Twittering or emailing, sometimes that bothers me.
These words came from my husband a couple months ago. A husband who is ridiculously supportive and excited about my writing career. A husband who would do the laundry, shop for groceries, and cook dinner all so I could have some extra time to write.
But when he came upstairs and I was busy getting my Tweet on, that bothered him.
You see, two months ago, writing to him, meant…..well, writing. Pounding out the words on my latest manuscript or marking up the pages in red pen.
Writing did not mean replying to people’s status updates.
And if I’m being honest, spending the precious little time I did have on social media always left me feeling guilty.
Until I met Kristen Lamb. Well….I didn’t actually meet her. I read her stuff. And she said, “If we are just goofing off and sending people farm animals, then yes, we are goofing off. But if we are blogging and spending time on Twitter and FB networking with other writers, published authors and people in the publishing industry, that is called marketing.”
So is it really marketing?
“This is part of being an author…..this is part of being an author….this is part of being an author….” Repeat until you start to believe it.
Second, carve out time.
We carve out time to write, right? Why not do the same for social media? It doesn’t have to be a huge time block, or even a medium-sized time block. But we should make purposeful time for it. We should make it a habit. And maybe, by giving social media its own slot, we will be less inclined to let it bleed into our writing time.
Third, write goals.
Twitter goals, blogging goals, FB goals, and any other type of social media goals. What do you hope to accomplish through each of these? How will you measure success? There’s not a right or a wrong answer to these, but how you answer them should affect how you use social media.
Fourth, strategize.
What steps can you take each day to accomplish these goals?
Fifth, observe, copy, but be yourself.
Look at authors who use social media effectively. See what they do that works and copy them. Only make sure you’re being you. Copy their methods, not their personality.
Sixth, read Kristen Lamb’s book
Are You There Blog? It’s Me, Writer. Truly, if you want to laugh out loud while learning how to take full advantage of social media and create a killer plan for yourself, then there is no substitute for reading Kristen’s book. I finished it in two days and I can’t even tell you how much I learned.
Let’s Talk: How intentional are you when it comes to social media? Any tips you want to share? Do your loved ones have a hard time understanding why you need to spend time Tweeting?
One Rule to Rule Them All
There are lots of rules when it comes to writing.
No head hopping. Avoid passive sentence structure. No cliches. Show, don’t tell. Write using scene and sequel. Make sure your scenes have GMCs. Write tight. Be specific. Don’t use a prologue. Or if you do, make sure it’s done in the correct way.
Et Cetera.
Et Cetera.
Et Cetera.
Yet, we pick up books – published books – and we see the rules broken. And we scratch our heads because we don’t break the rules.
Do you know in The Help, a best-selling novel by Kathryn Stockett, there is a scene completely told in objective point of view? The story’s told from three different perspectives, all in first-person point of view. Each of the three voices fleshed out in a way that spins my head, it’s that good. And then, all of a sudden, out of nowhere, there’s this one scene.
This one scene that reads like a newspaper article. A detached telling of the events. As if the reader were hovering above the party observing the goings-on of each character. Unattached.
Kathryn Stockett broke a rule.
And it completely, one hundred percent works.
I remember laying in bed, reading that scene, crazy impressed because of how well it works. And I remember thinking….
Kathryn Stockett gets it. She understands that amongst the lot of rules hemming us writers in, there is only one that should never ever be broken. There is only one we should vow to live by. And it’s this.
Do what works.
Three simple words.
Do what works.
It’s a rule that overrides all the others. It’s a rule that lets us break all the others. It’s a rule that helps us understand all the others.
Because, usually, following the rules is what works best.
But not always.
So the next time you’re stuck, wondering if you should prologue or not. Wondering if you should tell or not. Wondering if you should throw in a random point of view or not. Ask yourself this one question:
Does it work?
And if the answer is yes, go for it.
Let’s Talk: How much of a rule-follower are you when it comes to writing? When it comes to life? Is there one rule you live by?